My oscillating view

One of the questions that doesn't get enough attention about religious faith (by people of faith) is the scrutiny of the 'spectacles' through which we look at the world, God, the Bible, stories etc.
Ruth Gledhill of the Times raises the current discussion about whether the 19th century stigmatic Padre Pio was faking it!(here)
It is clear that some people look at the world through supernatural glasses. They want God to be the sort of God who inflicts people with the wounds of the passion, or the world to be the sort of world in which the Blessed Virgin appears to a group of children on a hillside in Southern France or Eastern Portugal. The randomness of these events seems curious, and more likely to happen in some places and to certain types of person than other. Perhaps that fact alone is not surprising, or it should alert us to be more careful.
My concern is that such views of the supernatural, although they seem powerful and dramatic are actually demeaning of the way God relates. I don't doubt that God could do any of these things, but whether God does is another question.
Or is the issue that we want God to be this sort of God.
In fact I do believe God relates to my life, but the sort of change and growth that is being asked of me is far deeper and profounder than just acknowledging various 'supernatural' phenomena. In a way that sort of stuff is easy, you either accept it or you don't.
What is often difficult for us to accept is that God deals with us slowly, that God is patient and that most of the stuff that is "Godly" in lives is fairly ordinary....like learning to love, to seek forgiveness, to practice humility. Too much of this other stuff (stigmatae, visions etc) seems to have a contrary effect. It produces a sort of arrogance, hubris even, and stops the process of ongoing deepening...why should we go deeper when God has wounded us with the supernatural.
Worse than this, it might distract us. We spend so much time authenticating the Shroud of Turin that we lose sight of the poor at the door.
An old Buddhist proverb reminds us to be wary of the supernatural ...If you meet the Buddha on the way then kill him.
It is the journey and its end that is the point, not the temporary distraction of a vision or supernatural encounter.