She is a very fine professional woman, statuesque and lovely personality. Her fiance is actually an Iranian refugee. Great young man, and a true example of the system working well (if not a little slowly).
It was great to see him stand amidst his brothers and with much of his family who now llive in Australia.
You can imagine that this provides much food for thought, reflection and prayer so I won't try to tell you everything, dear reader. But here are some thoughts.
First, the speeches were all great. Which is not always the case.
But we were all impressed, not in a patronising way with speeches crafted by the best man and the groom.
The great care they took was wondrous.
At many weddings there is too little care, but given that neither was speaking in their first language, I was touched by the careful word choice and the absolute sincerity.
A good dose of humour was present, which is not always easy to get in another language.
Their desire to assert the establishment of this new family and to embrace this lovely woman into their fold was just amazing.
I was moved to watch B stand with his father and mother and their sons and daughter, and have their photos taken...while we all have such photos at weddings...this did have about it the great sense of victory.
Second, perhaps the best thing about the wedding ceremony (though the bride looked stunning) was the ululation. ... you know that high pitched African trilling ... as E walked into the garden this spontaneously erupted. I hadn't quite expected it, but it was so thrilling and happened several times , well often, during the night.
As the excitement and joy just boiled over it would be picked up and thrill us all!
Now this is Australia, there is always something like this at weddings because we come from such diverse cultural backgrounds. I guess we will find something like this when S marries D (of Hungarian extraction) next year.
Third, as I prayed for those who weren't there. Particularly thinking of Claire, E's grandmother who died not so long ago, I suddenly realised that who knew what else this refugee family had had to bear, and who was not there for them today and who this prayer might refer to.
And then, lastly, there was just the dancing. It looked a lot like young men showing off, but it was great!!!