The conference referred to below was quite demanding but probably quite good. We were told that he wanted to love us, it was good to be so told. And I believe it.
Our facilitator mused about how she worked with many ages but often these sorts of consultations in the church were more torrid. One would hope that it is not because we are worse but because we are more vulnerable. But it would be presumptuous of me to say so.
I did determine that I would write a letter to the former Gorgonzola, (not that I would send it to him, but I need to write it for my own integrity)
God bless us all!